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Basic
Kissing Tips
Great
Breath
This
is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth
before going out on your date. There is nothing worse
than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date
consists of having something to eat before the actual
kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right
after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just
before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have
something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist
Lips
You want
your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your
tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear
lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too
gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you
want your partner to wear it too after the kiss.
Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips
over your partner's and gives both you and your
partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning
Stand
close to your partner. As the two of you move closer
together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you
don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still
tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight
angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can
see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt
your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close
Eyes
Just
before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people
prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But
until you know what your partner prefers, it is best
to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open,
looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be
very erotic and some people
find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try
kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing
your partner .
Open
Lips
Open
your mouth slightly and place your lips over your
partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath
through your nose. As your lips meet, press them
gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your
lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them
still over your partners.
Closed
Lips
This
is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or
aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips
meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of
letting your partner know this is as far as it goes.
It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great
first time kiss if you're nervous.
Hands
There are
many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The
most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's
waist and the other one against the middle of their
back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your
partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put
them around your partner's neck, put them around their
waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently,
run your finger's through their hair, or just hold
their hands in yours.
Different Kissing Style
Bent
Kiss
"When the heads of two lovers are bent toward each
other, and when so bent, kissing takes place."
The
Pressed Kiss
We couldn't find a good example for this one. Supposedly,
one lover is supposed to press the lower lip of the other
with great force. This can be done by grasping your lovers
lower lip with your finger just before you kiss.
The
Straight Kiss
When the lips of two lovers are brought directly to each
other, this is called a straight kiss.
Clasping
Kiss
When either the man or woman "takes both the lips of
the other between his or her own, it is called the clasping
kiss."
The Kamasutra goes on to say, "A woman only takes this
kind of kiss from a man with no mustache."
If, during the practice of this kiss one of them touches the
teeth, the tongue, and the palate of the other with his or
her tongue, it is called the fighting of the tongue.
The
kiss that kindles love
This is a kiss that the woman can use to wake her partner
when she wants to make love. "When a woman looks at the
face of her lover while he is asleep and kisses it to show
her intention or desire it is called the kiss that kindles
love."
The
kiss that turns away
When one lover kisses the other while that lover is engaged
in business or while he is looking at something else so that
his or her mind may be turned away it is called the Kiss The
Turns Away.
The
kiss that awakens
When a lover coming home late at night kisses his beloved,
who is asleep on her bed in order to show her his desire it
is called a kiss that awakens. On such an occasion the woman
may pretend to be asleep at the time of her lover's arrival
so that she may know his intention and obtain respect from
him.
Open
Lips
Open
your lips "slightly" more than you would during a
regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in
your partner's mouth.
Tongue
Place the tip of your tongue on
the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue
too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with
their tongue by circling theirs with your own, running the
tip of your tongue along theirs, darting your tongue in and
out of their mouth teasingly, or running the tip of your
tongue along their teeth or roof of their mouth. If all else
fails and you're still unsure of what to do, just use your
tongue the way your partner uses theirs. Have fun with it!
Explore!
Suck
Kissing
This can be a very seductive
type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth
open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top
our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then
go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip
Kissing
This type of kiss has to be
done carefully, but when done correctly can create a
wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently
bite their lip, but be very gentle so as not to hurt
your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone
that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may
shock your partner.
Surprise
Kissing
This type of kiss is done when
your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either
asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly
approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on
their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens
their eyes or awakens.
Vaccuum
Kissing
This is a playful kiss. While
in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking
the air from your partner.
Cordial
Kissing
Take a sip of your
favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then
when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth.
Only take a very small sip.
Butterfly
Kissing
Put your eye really close
to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their
skin. You can also do this on their lips.
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